MAKE FEAR YOUR FRIEND

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Fact 1: Everybody experiences fear.
Fact 2: You can let your fear control you.
Fact 3: You can decide to conquer you fears.

Everyone knows that the greatest talent, brains and wealth lies in the graveyard. There lies all the unrealized opportunities and talent. The biggest reason why those opportunities were unrealized is fear.
Fear of trying something new.
Fear of failing.
Fear of becoming the no. 1 gossip topic.
Fear of starting over.
Fear of the unknown.
Fear of not being accepted for who you are.
Fear of using your voice.
Fear of living your live.
Fear of caring too much just in case the other person doesn't care.
Fear of being different.
Fear of standing up for the right thing.
Fear of speaking about what you care about.
Basically the fear of being yourself.

So how do you understand your fear?
Every fearful thought has a foundation whether it is a traumatic event or something you cannot remember. Identifying the source of your fear is a step towards conquering your fears. This requires a deep dive into your soul. You have to be really honest with yourself and that will be the hardest part. Most of our fears are things that started out small and we didn't deal with them. These fears just kept on growing as we did everything possible to avoid facing them.

Why should you face your fears?
Being afraid will rob you of your confidence and self esteem. You will never be courageous enough to stand up for what you want or what you believe in. You will never be able to be brave enough to go after what you want in life. You need to face your fears to become the person you were meant to be. Otherwise you will watch your colleagues, friends and family grow while you stay stuck in one place.  
Location: Nairobi County, Kenya

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